Cross gender interaction

I really have no after thoughts about the interactions between both the genders. Maybe being brought up quite open-mindedly, I don't really see what is the issue whether one is being called a Miss or a Ms and all the other forms of categorization. Honestly I might very well be asexual.

It is quite apparent that it is a female when a discourse like this is noted:
"OMGOMGOMG IM SO EXCITED FOR YOU!!!! *hugz*"

Likewise, this can be classified as a male utterance:
"Damn! Im so happy that you made it Harvard Med School!! Congrats man!"

Based on the difference theory perhaps? Intimacy vs Independence, Connection vs Status, Relationship vs Information, Rapport vs Report... blah blah.

But frankly, with a slow but sure shift in the paradigm of what is male and female, the value of this study might be undermined. Males are getting more metrosexual (my bf uses more Cologne than I do!!) and females are attempting to establish themselves on the same platform as males. In portraying their intended images, males might end up saying:

"OMGOMGOMG IM SO EXCITED FOR YOU!!!! *hugz*"

Vice versa.

So where are the parameters? For a transexual, do you record his or her discourse as the original God-gift (cursed) inert gender or as the new gender he or she chose and embraced? Food for thought.